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The way you feel about yourself can affect your entire day – and your whole life. If you don't feel good about yourself, you might not be as willing to take risks, to achieve more, and to get what you really want. Instead of feeling badly about yourself, you can begin to change the energy of your life and of your attitude by using Feng Shui. Things can change – and you deserve better!
If It Holds You Back, Get Rid of It! If you stop for a moment to look around at your living or working space, you might notice that there are things you don't particular like. So why are they in your environment? One of the best ways to start bolstering your self esteem is to remove those things in your life that just don't make you feel great. These might be pictures, negative notes or letters, or anything else that just makes you feel horrible. You want to increase the positive energy of your life and of yourself, so why drag that energy back down with things that only upset you? Unless you have to keep these items, get rid of them completely. You'll notice an immediate weight lift from your shoulders. While you're getting rid of things, you should also be getting rid of any clothing that doesn’t make you feel good about yourself. You want to always feel good when you open your closet, not open up your closet and sigh when you go to put something on. Positive energy comes from having things you love in your life – so only hang onto those outfits you really, really love. If your home is near anything that might produce EM, electromagnetic, energy, you should try to put up some sort of barrier between yourself and that source. Even a plant or some other decorative feature can help. Too much energy has just as negative an effect as too little energy – especially in relation to your self esteem. Bring in the Happy Times Now that you've cleaned out the bad, it's time to bring in the good. Try painting or decorating your space with bold and bright colors (although try to avoid these in the bedroom). The kitchen is the heart of a home, and often linked with the heart of you too. So, dress it up in bright reds and oranges to lift your mood every day. Make sure to open up the shades and to add as much light as possible to each room of your home. This will help you begin to feel more positive about your life as light attracts positive energy. You might also want to wear brighter clothes as this too will attract happy and positive feelings to your everyday encounters. And you'll notice that others respond favorably to people who dress to impress. It can also help for you to find a space in your home that you can use for you and only you. Decorate this space in any way you like, and visit it often. It might just be a chair that you sit in at the end of a long day or it could be a whole room that you devote to your favorite hobby. In any case, this space should be all about your energy and what makes you special – thus attracting even more positive energy to your life. In this space, why not add a list of the things you have achieved in your life or pictures of things that make you feel good about yourself? That's going to spark a firestorm of positive energy. Feng Shui is just one of the many ways you can help boost your self esteem and show the world just how special you are. Just think of how great it's going to feel being surrounded by all that positive energy – you're smiling right now, aren't you? About the Author: Candace Czarny, ASID, CFM, LEED AP, "Award Winning" Interior Designer, Feng Shui Expert & Author of 20 Minute Feng Shui is continually ranked "Top 10" in Google and Yahoo. Clients testify of dramatic results! Published At: www.Isnare.com |
By: Candace Czarny, CFM, ASID, LEED AP, Feng Shui Expert
